拒絕男生告白的話

我不是什么都不懂，你做的一切我都看在眼里記在心里。

我感覺到你的真誠，謝謝你的真誠。

也謝謝你對(duì)我的尊重，謝謝你對(duì)我的青睞。

你很好，只是我不能接受。

感情不能勉強(qiáng)，我有自己的事情要做，原諒我不能答應(yīng)伴隨你。

也希望你更加努力，不要放棄自己，有一天你會(huì)得到自己的幸福

看!灰機(jī)灰過去了。。

你想看到我不開心嗎?

你可以找個(gè)比我更好的

我不想以后連朋友的沒的做了

我已經(jīng)有喜歡的人了

我一直把你當(dāng)哥哥or弟弟

我覺得我們更適合做朋友吧

最無厘頭的也是最雷人的：想和我交往?哦，那我先問問我老公的意見哦

最傷心的：對(duì)不起，我已經(jīng)結(jié)婚了。。。

最冷酷的：我想我們并不適合在一起，還是做朋友吧!

最婉轉(zhuǎn)的：不好意思，我不是你要的那杯茶

最純情的：在我心里你就像是妹妹一樣

最簡(jiǎn)單的：我想我們還是做朋友比較好

先，態(tài)度要堅(jiān)決。拒絕難免是一種傷害，但不能因此而猶豫不決。既然是愛上你的人，對(duì)你的言行都非常敏感。如果你拒愛的態(tài)度不夠堅(jiān)決，很容易造成對(duì)方的誤會(huì)，尤其是對(duì)方處在深愛你的狀況，你所采用的出于禮貌或者是顧全的思想，會(huì)讓對(duì)方覺得你也是愛他的，至少是讓他覺得還有希望，最后往往帶來比拒愛更大的傷害。

其次，盡力維護(hù)對(duì)方的自尊。為了減少拒愛給對(duì)方的心理傷害，也使對(duì)方更易于接受，就必需設(shè)法維護(hù)對(duì)方的心理平衡，盡量減少對(duì)方的內(nèi)心挫折。具體說來，你不妨先對(duì)對(duì)方的人品和才華等加以贊許，然后說明你為什么不能接受求愛的理由;說出的理由要合乎情理，最好從對(duì)方的角度提出有利的方面，讓對(duì)方覺得拒絕也是為了他(她)好;如果必需向旁人作出解釋，你不妨把消極原因歸因于自己，避免給人單單造成一個(gè)你拒絕了他的印象。這種方法尤其適用于對(duì)那些心理比較脆弱的人，可以避免一些極端現(xiàn)象的出現(xiàn)。

再次，選擇恰當(dāng)?shù)姆绞�。�?yīng)該考慮到你們平素的關(guān)系和對(duì)方的個(gè)性特點(diǎn)，選擇或面談、或書信等方式，但建議你最好不要采用托人轉(zhuǎn)告的方式，因?yàn)檫@顯得對(duì)對(duì)方不夠尊重，還可能帶來不必要的麻煩。這種方法的采用，也可以結(jié)合到第二點(diǎn)，也就是在和他面談或者是書信說明時(shí)，可以對(duì)他進(jìn)行肯定的評(píng)價(jià)，但是，同時(shí)也要結(jié)合第一點(diǎn)，也就是肯定對(duì)方的同時(shí)，讓對(duì)方知道你拒絕他的態(tài)度，不然的話會(huì)讓對(duì)方覺得你也在愛他。

最后，選擇合適的時(shí)機(jī)。一般來說，不要在對(duì)方剛表白了愛情時(shí)立即加以拒絕，因?yàn)榇藭r(shí)對(duì)方很難接受;但也不可拖延太久，給對(duì)方造成誤會(huì)。當(dāng)然，具體選擇什么時(shí)機(jī)，要視具體情況而定。最好是在對(duì)方表白后的三四天時(shí)間內(nèi)，這樣對(duì)方的情緒也比較穩(wěn)定了，你的拒絕不會(huì)讓對(duì)方感到太受傷害，同時(shí)，也讓對(duì)方明白了你的態(tài)度。

上述幾點(diǎn)都是拒絕真心求愛時(shí)應(yīng)該注意的;如果對(duì)方屬無理糾纏，則應(yīng)取得師長及同學(xué)們的配合，不留情面。更不要因此影響了自己的生活和學(xué)習(xí)，給自己帶來不必要的麻煩。

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非常經(jīng)典有深度的電影英文臺(tái)詞

1.一個(gè)人總要走陌生的路，看陌生的風(fēng)景，聽陌生的歌，然后在某個(gè)不經(jīng)意的瞬間，你會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)，原本是費(fèi)盡心機(jī)想要忘記的事情真的就那么忘記了。

One is always on a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening to strange music. Then one day, you will find that the things you try hard to forget are already gone.

2.幸福，不是長生不老，不是大魚大肉，不是權(quán)傾朝野。幸福是每一個(gè)微小的生活愿望達(dá)成。當(dāng)你想吃的時(shí)候有得吃，想被愛的時(shí)候有人來愛你。

Happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights in one's hand. It’s about having each tiny wish come true, or having something to eat when you are hungry or having someone's love when you need love.

3.愛情是燈，友情是影子，當(dāng)燈滅了，你會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)你的周圍都是影子。朋友，是在最后可以給你力量的人。

Love is a lamp, while friendship is the shadow. When the lamp is off,you will find the shadow everywhere. Friend is who can give you strength at last.

4.我愛你不是因?yàn)槟闶钦l，而是我在你面前可以是誰。

I love you not for who you are, but for who I am before you.

5.愛情，要么讓人成熟，要么讓人墮落。

Love makes man grow up or sink down.

6.舉得起放得下的叫舉重，舉得起放不下的叫負(fù)重�？上�，大多數(shù)人的愛情，都是負(fù)重的。

If you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting; if you can hold something up but can never put it down,it's called burden-bearing. Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavy burdens when they are in love.

7.我們每個(gè)人都生活在各自的過去中，人們會(huì)用一分鐘的時(shí)間去認(rèn)識(shí)一個(gè)人，用一小時(shí)的時(shí)間去喜歡一個(gè)人，再用一天的時(shí)間去愛上一個(gè)人，到最后呢，卻要用一輩子的時(shí)間去忘記一個(gè)人。

We all live in the past. We take a minute to know someone, one hour to like someone, and one day to love someone, but the whole life to forget someone.

8.一個(gè)人一生可以愛上很多的人，等你獲得真正屬于你的幸福之后，你就會(huì)明白一起的傷痛其實(shí)是一種財(cái)富，它讓你學(xué)會(huì)更好地去把握和珍惜你愛的人。

One may fall in love with many people during the lifetime. When you finally get your own happiness, you will understand the previous sadness is kind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and cherish the people you love.

9.年輕的時(shí)候會(huì)想要談很多次戀愛，但是隨著年齡的增長，終于領(lǐng)悟到愛一個(gè)人，就算用一輩子的時(shí)間，還是會(huì)嫌不夠。慢慢地去了解這個(gè)人，體諒這個(gè)人，直到愛上為止，是需要有非常寬大的胸襟才行。

When you are young, you may want several love experiences. But as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love. All this needs a very big mind.

10.當(dāng)明天變成了今天成為了昨天，最后成為記憶里不emrowgh.com再重要的某一天，我們突然發(fā)現(xiàn)自己在不知不覺中已被時(shí)間推著向前走，這不是靜止火車?yán)�，與相鄰列車交錯(cuò)時(shí)，仿佛自己在前進(jìn)的錯(cuò)覺，而是我們真實(shí)的在成長，在這件事里成了另一個(gè)自己。

When tomorrow turns in today, yesterday, and someday that no more important in your memory, we suddenly realize that we are pushed forward by time. This is not a train in still in which you may feel forward when another train goes by. It is the truth that we've all grown up. And we become different.

11.離開我就別安慰我，要知道每一次縫補(bǔ)也會(huì)遭遇穿刺的痛。

If you leave me, please don't comfort me because each sewing has to meet stinging pain.

12.曾經(jīng)擁有的，不要忘記。不能得到的，更要珍惜。屬于自己的，不要放棄。已經(jīng)失去的，留作回憶。

Don’t forget the things you once you owned. Treasure the things youcan’t get. Don't give up the things that belong to you and keep those lost things in memory.

13.我喜歡并習(xí)慣了對(duì)變化的東西保持著距離，這樣才會(huì)知道什么是最不會(huì)被時(shí)間拋棄的準(zhǔn)則。比如愛一個(gè)人，充滿變數(shù)，我于是后退一步，靜靜的看著，直到看見真誠的感情。

I love and am used to keeping a distance with those changed things.Only in this way can I know what will not be abandoned by time. For example, when you love someone, changes are all around. Then I step backward and watching it silently, then I see the true feelings.

14.男人的愛是俯視而生，而女人的愛是仰視而生。如果愛情像座山，那么男人越往上走可以俯視的女人就越多，而女人越往上走可以仰視的男人就越少。

Men love from overlooking while women love from looking up. If love is a mountain, then if men go up, more women they will see while women will see fewer men.

15.好的愛情是你通過一個(gè)人看到整個(gè)世界，壞的愛情是你為了一個(gè)人舍棄世界。

Good love makes you see the whole world from one person while bad love makes you abandon the whole world for one person.

16.在自己面前，應(yīng)該一直留有一個(gè)地方，獨(dú)自留在那里。然后去愛。不知道是什么，不知道是誰，不知道如何去愛，也不知道可以愛多久。只是等待一次愛情，也許永遠(yuǎn)都沒有人。可是，這種等待，就是愛情本身。

We shall always save a place for ourselves, only for ourselves. And then begin to love. Have no idea of what it is, who he is, how to love or how long it will be. Just wait for one love. Maybe no one will come out, but this kind of waiting is the love itself.

17.有誰不曾為那暗戀而痛苦?我們總以為那份癡情很重，很重，是世上最重的重量。有一天，暮然回首，我們才發(fā)現(xiàn)，它一直都是很輕，很輕的。我們以為愛的很深，很深，來日歲月，會(huì)讓你知道，它不過很淺，很淺。最深和最重的愛，必須和時(shí)日一起成長。

Is there anyone who hasn't suffered for the secret love? We always think that love is very heavy, heavy and could be the heaviest thing in the world. But one day, when you look back, you suddenly realize that it's always light, light. We all thought love was very deep, but in fact it's very thin. The deepest and heaviest love must grow up withthe time.

18.在這個(gè)世界上，只有真正快樂的男人，才能帶給女人真正的快樂。

In this world, only those men who really feel happy can give women happiness

19.女人如果不性感，就要感性;如果沒有感性，就要理性;如果沒有理性，就要有自知之明;如果連這個(gè)都沒有了，她只有不幸。

If a woman is not sexy, she needs emotion; if she is not emotional, she needs reason; if she is not reasonable, she has to know herself clearly. coz only she has is misfortune.

20.一段不被接受的愛情，需要的不是傷心，而是時(shí)間，一段可以用來遺忘的時(shí)間。一顆被深深傷了的心，需要的不是同情，而是理解。

An unacceptable love needs no sorrow but time- sometime for forgetting.A badly-hurt heart needs no sympathy but understanding.

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