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給情敵的話
你知道你自始至終錯(cuò)在哪嗎?
第一:你不懂得男人需要什么。我承認(rèn)你很會(huì)掙錢,可對(duì)一個(gè)有身份有地位的男人他對(duì)這個(gè)沒興趣。對(duì)于現(xiàn)在的他來說,他的家庭很好很幸福,他讓妻子和孩子驕傲。在旁人眼里他是優(yōu)秀的,是出色的,在今天的位置上,作為男人的他需要的不僅僅是仰慕和贊賞,同樣需要像知己一樣的關(guān)愛和理解,放松和交流。因?yàn)樗,起碼在他身邊,除了他家人,就是我了,只有我對(duì)他無所求,給他無盡的愛,所以他可以毫無顧忌的和我說任何話,因?yàn)槲覐臎]有害他的心。十幾年雖有我,但從沒影響他的家庭,甚至我不讓他對(duì)家里的發(fā)脾氣。如今被你搞成這樣,你想,再蠢的男人也不會(huì)和你有任何的牽扯呀。
第二,你不該拿他的事業(yè)威脅他。男人你可以對(duì)他發(fā)脾氣,可以對(duì)他使性子撒嬌,就是不可以威脅他,還拿他的事業(yè)和家庭來威脅他,那樣你再愛他都沒有用。他會(huì)認(rèn)為你是個(gè)可怕的女人,不擇手段的女人。即使當(dāng)時(shí)向你低頭,過后他都會(huì)想方設(shè)法逃離你。
第三,你真不該打電話到他家里。告訴他家里說:你老公在外面有女人,我是為他好才告訴你的,我不希望他背叛家庭。這邊又發(fā)信息總纏著他要他和你在一起。難道說他和你在一起就不算背叛家庭,和別人在一起就是背叛家庭嗎?怪不得他家里的問你你是誰,你都不知道怎么說自己。人家也會(huì)想呀,我老公怎么樣和你有什么關(guān)系呢?你怎么這么關(guān)心他呀?你什么目的呀?
還有你罵我的那些話,我很冷靜的想過,你會(huì)這么認(rèn)為,是因?yàn)槟悴涣私馕液退母星椤N腋嬖V你我們認(rèn)識(shí)十幾年,你不信,說我騙你,認(rèn)為是我中途搶走了他。其實(shí)任何一個(gè)人不是隨便就可以任人搶走的,特別是感情,要是他對(duì)你有感情,我怎么也搶不走的。
他對(duì)我說死都不想和你有什么。因?yàn)槟惴磸?fù)的糾纏讓他越來越討厭你,現(xiàn)在甚至一提到你就惡心。想過為什么嗎?檢討檢討自己吧!這是我身為一個(gè)女人對(duì)你說的很公平的話,我沒別的意思。我甚至沒想過恨你,因?yàn)槲覜]資格,我也只是個(gè)“小三”而已,是自己以前做得不好,才讓你有機(jī)會(huì),現(xiàn)在我及時(shí)醒悟了。因?yàn)槲液軔鬯,可以愛一輩子的那種。男人嘛,偶爾犯性與愛總是無關(guān)的錯(cuò),就原諒一回,及時(shí)回頭就行。
要是真如你說你很愛他,那就請(qǐng)停止對(duì)他和他家人的騷擾,讓她回想起你時(shí),有讓他值得想的念頭,F(xiàn)在他一看到你的短信,就血壓升高,恨得牙癢癢。我想這不是你希望看到的。
給自己留點(diǎn)自尊!好自為之!
真心希望你將來可以找到更好的。
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非常經(jīng)典有深度的電影英文臺(tái)詞
1.一個(gè)人總要走陌生的路,看陌生的風(fēng)景,聽陌生的歌,然后在某個(gè)不經(jīng)意的瞬間,你會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn),原本是費(fèi)盡心機(jī)想要忘記的事情真的就那么忘記了。
One is always on a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening to strange music. Then one day, you will find that the things you try hard to forget are already gone.
2.幸福,不是長(zhǎng)生不老,不是大魚大肉,不是權(quán)傾朝野。幸福是每一個(gè)微小的生活愿望達(dá)成。當(dāng)你想吃的時(shí)候有得吃,想被愛的時(shí)候有人來愛你。
Happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights in one's hand. It’s about having each tiny wish come true, or having something to eat when you are hungry or having someone's love when you need love.
3.愛情是燈,友情是影子,當(dāng)燈滅了,你會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)你的周圍都是影子。朋友,是在最后可以給你力量的人。
Love is a lamp, while friendship is the shadow. When the lamp is off,you will find the shadow everywhere. Friend is who can give you strength at last.
4.我愛你不是因?yàn)槟闶钦l,而是我在你面前可以是誰。
I love you not for who you are, but for who I am before you.
5.愛情,要么讓人成熟,要么讓人墮落。
Love makes man grow up or sink down.
6.舉得起放得下的叫舉重,舉得起放不下的叫負(fù)重?上,大多數(shù)人的愛情,都是負(fù)重的。
If you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting; if you can hold something up but can never put it down,it's called burden-bearing. Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavy burdens when they are in love.
7.我們每個(gè)人都生活在各自的過去中,人們會(huì)用一分鐘的時(shí)間去認(rèn)識(shí)一個(gè)人,用一小時(shí)的時(shí)間去喜歡一個(gè)人,再用一天的時(shí)間去愛上一個(gè)人,到最后呢,卻要用一輩子的時(shí)間去忘記一個(gè)人。
We all live in the past. We take a minute to know someone, one hour to like someone, and one day to love someone, but the whole life to forget someone.
8.一個(gè)人一生可以愛上很多的人,等你獲得真正屬于你的幸福之后,你就會(huì)明白一起的傷痛其實(shí)是一種財(cái)富,它讓你學(xué)會(huì)更好地去把握和珍惜你愛的人。
One may fall in love with many people during the lifetime. When you finally get your own happiness, you will understand the previous sadness is kind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and cherish the people you love.
9.年輕的時(shí)候會(huì)想要談很多次戀愛,但是隨著年齡的增長(zhǎng),終于領(lǐng)悟到愛一個(gè)人,就算用一輩子的時(shí)間,還是會(huì)嫌不夠。慢慢地去了解這個(gè)人,體諒這個(gè)人,直到愛上為止,是需要有非常寬大的胸襟才行。
When you are young, you may want several love experiences. But as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love. All this needs a very big mind.
10.當(dāng)明天變成了今天成為了昨天,最后成為記憶里不emrowgh.com再重要的某一天,我們突然發(fā)現(xiàn)自己在不知不覺中已被時(shí)間推著向前走,這不是靜止火車?yán),與相鄰列車交錯(cuò)時(shí),仿佛自己在前進(jìn)的錯(cuò)覺,而是我們真實(shí)的在成長(zhǎng),在這件事里成了另一個(gè)自己。
When tomorrow turns in today, yesterday, and someday that no more important in your memory, we suddenly realize that we are pushed forward by time. This is not a train in still in which you may feel forward when another train goes by. It is the truth that we've all grown up. And we become different.
11.離開我就別安慰我,要知道每一次縫補(bǔ)也會(huì)遭遇穿刺的痛。
If you leave me, please don't comfort me because each sewing has to meet stinging pain.
12.曾經(jīng)擁有的,不要忘記。不能得到的,更要珍惜。屬于自己的,不要放棄。已經(jīng)失去的,留作回憶。
Don’t forget the things you once you owned. Treasure the things youcan’t get. Don't give up the things that belong to you and keep those lost things in memory.
13.我喜歡并習(xí)慣了對(duì)變化的東西保持著距離,這樣才會(huì)知道什么是最不會(huì)被時(shí)間拋棄的準(zhǔn)則。比如愛一個(gè)人,充滿變數(shù),我于是后退一步,靜靜的看著,直到看見真誠(chéng)的感情。
I love and am used to keeping a distance with those changed things.Only in this way can I know what will not be abandoned by time. For example, when you love someone, changes are all around. Then I step backward and watching it silently, then I see the true feelings.
14.男人的愛是俯視而生,而女人的愛是仰視而生。如果愛情像座山,那么男人越往上走可以俯視的女人就越多,而女人越往上走可以仰視的男人就越少。
Men love from overlooking while women love from looking up. If love is a mountain, then if men go up, more women they will see while women will see fewer men.
15.好的愛情是你通過一個(gè)人看到整個(gè)世界,壞的愛情是你為了一個(gè)人舍棄世界。
Good love makes you see the whole world from one person while bad love makes you abandon the whole world for one person.
16.在自己面前,應(yīng)該一直留有一個(gè)地方,獨(dú)自留在那里。然后去愛。不知道是什么,不知道是誰,不知道如何去愛,也不知道可以愛多久。只是等待一次愛情,也許永遠(yuǎn)都沒有人?墒,這種等待,就是愛情本身。
We shall always save a place for ourselves, only for ourselves. And then begin to love. Have no idea of what it is, who he is, how to love or how long it will be. Just wait for one love. Maybe no one will come out, but this kind of waiting is the love itself.
17.有誰不曾為那暗戀而痛苦?我們總以為那份癡情很重,很重,是世上最重的重量。有一天,暮然回首,我們才發(fā)現(xiàn),它一直都是很輕,很輕的。我們以為愛的很深,很深,來日歲月,會(huì)讓你知道,它不過很淺,很淺。最深和最重的愛,必須和時(shí)日一起成長(zhǎng)。
Is there anyone who hasn't suffered for the secret love? We always think that love is very heavy, heavy and could be the heaviest thing in the world. But one day, when you look back, you suddenly realize that it's always light, light. We all thought love was very deep, but in fact it's very thin. The deepest and heaviest love must grow up withthe time.
18.在這個(gè)世界上,只有真正快樂的男人,才能帶給女人真正的快樂。
In this world, only those men who really feel happy can give women happiness
19.女人如果不性感,就要感性;如果沒有感性,就要理性;如果沒有理性,就要有自知之明;如果連這個(gè)都沒有了,她只有不幸。
If a woman is not sexy, she needs emotion; if she is not emotional, she needs reason; if she is not reasonable, she has to know herself clearly. coz only she has is misfortune.
20.一段不被接受的愛情,需要的不是傷心,而是時(shí)間,一段可以用來遺忘的時(shí)間。一顆被深深傷了的心,需要的不是同情,而是理解。
An unacceptable love needs no sorrow but time- sometime for forgetting.A badly-hurt heart needs no sympathy but understanding.
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