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《讓愛(ài)情一直飛》雙語(yǔ)美文閱讀
引導(dǎo)語(yǔ)：愛(ài)情是人與人之間的強(qiáng)烈的依戀、親近、向往，以及無(wú)私專一并且無(wú)所不盡的情感,還有向往未來(lái)的生活。以下是百分網(wǎng)小編分享給大家的《讓愛(ài)情一直飛》雙語(yǔ)美文閱讀，希望大家喜歡!
首先是身體吸引的瞬間，接著，是令人心顫的來(lái)電的感覺(jué)。但是，當(dāng)慢慢揭掉浪漫的面紗時(shí)，回歸平淡的生活真正是什么樣的呢?
First comes that split second of physical attraction. Next, that thrilling feeling of chemistry. But when the veil of romance starts to lift, what’s life really like off the dance floor?
經(jīng)常，愛(ài)情是盲目的
Too often, love is blind
當(dāng)珍尼和邁克爾相遇時(shí)，他們立即相互吸引了，電光開(kāi)始飛濺四射。在一些激動(dòng)人心的閃電式派對(duì)和戀愛(ài)約會(huì)后，他們相互為對(duì)方所傾倒。他們決定結(jié)婚，從此永遠(yuǎn)幸福地生活在一起。幾年后，荷爾蒙(還有激情)都平靜下來(lái)。當(dāng)煙幕散盡后，開(kāi)始出現(xiàn)失諧。她對(duì)購(gòu)物的熱情以及他不太對(duì)勁的消費(fèi)決策，導(dǎo)致了持續(xù)的經(jīng)濟(jì)壓力。他喜歡和男友一起打發(fā)時(shí)間或者做些運(yùn)動(dòng)。她愛(ài)和朋友一起去電影院。他們對(duì)待孩子和家庭的觀念，尤其是宗教方面都有分歧。雙方?jīng)]有了交流。最后，分手了。
When Jenny and Michael met, they were instantly attracted to each other. Those electrifying sparks started flying. In an exciting whirlwind of parties and romantic dates, they swept each other off their feet. They decided to get married and live happily ever after. Years later the hormones had calmed down (and so had the fireworks). When the smoke cleared, the mismatches started to emerge. Her passion to shop and his questionable money decisions created constant financial stress. He liked to hang with the guys and play sports. She loved to go to the theater with friends. They disagreed on children and family values, especially religion. Communication broke down. Eventually, they grew apart.
聽(tīng)起來(lái)很熟悉?在最開(kāi)始，外表匹配很關(guān)鍵，但是正萌芽的新戀愛(ài)史的激情最終會(huì)消退。是否作出深思熟慮的相親決策，可以決定(你將收獲)走馬燈式情感關(guān)系，還是經(jīng)久不衰之愛(ài)。
Sound familiar? A physical match is essential at the start, but the excitement of a budding new romance eventually wears off. Making thoughtful dating decisions can mean the difference between revolving relationships and finding lasting love.
1 外表
雖然一開(kāi)始是外表和吸引力把兩個(gè)人吸引到一起，但是這些方面會(huì)影響他們的余生。假定運(yùn)動(dòng)和健身對(duì)你非常重要，而你的伴侶不象你一樣追求硬硬的腹肌，這會(huì)驅(qū)散你的熱情嗎?
1. Physical appearance
While physical appearance and attraction draw two people together at first, these aspects will affect the rest of their lives. If working out and staying fit is important to you, will it bum you out if your mate doesn’t share your quest for rock-hard abs?
2 情緒成熟性
這個(gè)人情緒成熟、以情緒為中心的，還是仍然背著一些重重的(情感)包袱呢?你的愛(ài)人與家人和朋友的關(guān)系怎么樣?她或他是善解人意體貼人還是有控制欲問(wèn)題?你愛(ài)人意識(shí)到他或她自己的問(wèn)題并樂(lè)于交流嗎?
2. Emotional maturity
Is this person emotionally mature and centered or still lugging around some trunk-sized baggage? How does your sweetheart relate to family and friends? Is he or she emotionally supportive or have control issues? Is your mate aware of his or her own issues and interested in addressing them?
3 生活方式的選擇
這包括職業(yè)和社會(huì)生活、共同興趣、閑暇活動(dòng)和體能水平。她寧愿加入保齡球隊(duì)或都市交響樂(lè)隊(duì)嗎?是不是他對(duì)于朋友之間的活動(dòng)精力充沛而她寧愿呆在家里休息放松?
3. Lifestyle choices
This includes career and social lives, common interests, leisure time activities and energy levels. Would she rather join the bowling league or the metropolitan symphony? Does he have lots of energy for activities with friends while she’d rather rest and chill out at home?
4 經(jīng)濟(jì)上諧調(diào)性
對(duì)大多數(shù)配偶來(lái)說(shuō)，這是(滋生事端的)溫床。它包括收入水平、儲(chǔ)蓄目標(biāo)以及消費(fèi)觀。你們各自想要怎么去消費(fèi)、儲(chǔ)蓄和投資呢?一個(gè)人是花錢狂而另一個(gè)人存錢嗎?一個(gè)人經(jīng)濟(jì)上有責(zé)任心而另一個(gè)人則撫養(yǎng)孩子和負(fù)擔(dān)各種帳單(以努力達(dá)到一致)嗎?
4. Financial compatibility
This is a hot bed for most couples. It includes income levels, savings goals and views on handling money. How do you each want to spend, save and invest? Is one person a spender while the other saves? Is one person financially responsible while the other plays catch-up with child support and bills?
5 價(jià)值觀體系
這方面通常被忽視了，但是它對(duì)生活有巨大影響。它包括重大價(jià)值觀：誠(chéng)實(shí)、正直、忠誠(chéng)，對(duì)待家庭和孩子的觀念、宗教和屬靈、生活目標(biāo)以及待人接物。你的伴侶會(huì)一直遵守自己的承諾嗎?你會(huì)說(shuō)這個(gè)人是可信賴的嗎?在重要關(guān)頭，你們會(huì)一直守在彼此身邊嗎?
5. Value structure
This area is often overlooked but has a tremendous impact on your life. It includes the big values: honesty, integrity, loyalty, views on family and children, religion and spirituality, life goals and the treatment and care for others. Does your mate follow through on promises made? Would you say this person is trustworthy? Will you always be there for each other in a pinch?
6 婚姻和親密無(wú)間
不是每個(gè)人對(duì)婚姻的看法都是一樣的。要提出的重大問(wèn)題是：你和愛(ài)人期待從婚姻中得到什么?她或他在尋找靈魂伴侶(心心相印的人)嗎?你們倆都想要一種除了肉體之外的親密無(wú)間的關(guān)系嗎(包括你們之間的友誼和私下的相互交流)嗎?
6. Marriage and intimacy
7 才智
具有差不多的教育水平能增加共同享有差不多的畢業(yè)學(xué)校和社會(huì)經(jīng)歷、知識(shí)興趣和職業(yè)目標(biāo)的可能性。你和愛(ài)人喜歡談?wù)撌裁礃拥脑掝}?對(duì)于一個(gè)喜歡思考經(jīng)營(yíng)哲學(xué)和大話生意的人來(lái)說(shuō)，局限于運(yùn)動(dòng)和購(gòu)物的話題會(huì)令他厭煩。
Everyone does not share the same idea of marriage. The big questions to address are: What do you and your mate expect from marriage? Is he or she looking for a soul mate? Do you both want close intimacy beyond the physical aspect, including with your friendships and in private communications with each other?
然而，不必在各個(gè)方面都完全匹配，著眼大局，確保戀人在生活中重大方面與你夠匹配，以增加你找到一份持久不衰之愛(ài)的可能性。
7. Intelligence
Having similar education levels increases your chances of sharing matching school and social experiences, intellectual interests and career goals. What topics do you and your honey like to talk about? Conversation limited to sports or shopping may get boring to someone who likes to ponder philosophy and bluster about business.
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